Hello sir/madam, I'm a software employee , married in 2013 to a chemical engineer. We were told he has a package of 4+lakes per annum but after marriage of one week he asked me money for advance of home which we took in place we both do job. I gave that starting from that I was keep on spending all our expenditures. . I was scared to ask his money since it's starting of our married life. He was not ready for marriage life too. After 3 months he said his employer not giving salary after 2 months he said resigned job too . From that time I'm the one who was baring all family responsibility but something is was not happy is ... he is not willing for family life .... ND no responsibility nature and if I go to my parents home he don't even call or might or nothing. I feel like he don't have any effect ion on me. If I call her won't pick if he pick also nly few words ND keep phone. After that he went to his parents place another state for job searching ... same case from there no call no words nothing ... he was not ready to come to place where I stam. .i was disappointed and frustrated. He will message me only when he need phone recharge or money. I was disappointed so moved to US on work purpose. Same behaviour now also. Now in law family asking me to go back india ND they r planning something with money which I earned. I am scared to go back and not sure what to do. Please advise me on taking divorce if person was not ready for taking responsibility and not interested in family night life,not caring and not effectionate towards me.